News | Entertainment
13 Nov 2025 15:52
NZCity News
NZCity CalculatorReturn to NZCity

  • Start Page
  • Personalise
  • Sport
  • Weather
  • Finance
  • Shopping
  • Jobs
  • Horoscopes
  • Lotto Results
  • Photo Gallery
  • Site Gallery
  • TVNow
  • Dating
  • SearchNZ
  • NZSearch
  • Crime.co.nz
  • RugbyLeague
  • Make Home
  • About NZCity
  • Contact NZCity
  • Your Privacy
  • Advertising
  • Login
  • Join for Free

  •   Home > News > Entertainment

    Ben Affleck feels "very lucky" for "second chances" and his challenges in life

    The 49-year-old actor - who rekindled his romance with former fiancee Jennifer Lopez earlier this year - has stressed the importance of "taking advantage" of being able to learn from "growth"


    Noting he has "benefited from second chances", he told WSJ. Magazine:

    "Life is difficult, and we are always failing and hopefully learning from those failures.

    "The one thing you really need to avail yourself of the opportunities provided from that growth is the second chance.

    "I've definitely tried to take advantage of that. I haven't always been successful, but in cases in which I have, they've turned out to be the defining aspects of my life."

    Ben - who has been open about his battle with addiction - insisted he had to "learn some lessons the hard way" in life, and he opened up on alcoholism.

    He said: "The only real cure for alcoholism is suffering. You just hope that your threshold for suffering is met somewhere before it destroys your life."

    Meanwhile, the 'Last Duel' star noted how his perspective has changed over the years, as he used to dismiss people saying they were "grateful"

    for their problems.

    He added: "I used to be irritated by people who would say, 'Oh, I have these problems and I'm grateful for them.'

    "I used to think, 'This is bulls***. You're not grateful for disasters, creating pain and wreckage in your life. Say you feel s***** about it and you wish you were better!'

    "Only within the last five years, I really felt increasingly grateful for the difficulties that I've had."

    And reflecting now, Ben admitted there are "a lot" of things he wishes his "younger self" had been able to understand.

    He said: "Some things, honestly, that I'm too self-conscious of or shy about to be really candid about with the whole world because they're mostly mistakes.

    "Things I wish I had done differently, and they're rooted in that instinct to look at my past and think, I wish I could have avoided this painful event.' I wish I could have not caused someone else pain. I wish I had understood better the nature of what was difficult about life for me."

    © 2025 Bang Showbiz, NZCity

     Other Entertainment News
     13 Nov: Michelle Obama avoided talking about fashion during her time in the White House
     13 Nov: Jason Kelce has launched the barbecue-inspired fragrance Slow Burn
     13 Nov: Dame Judi Dench's eyesight is so bad that she can't watch TV or stage shows
     13 Nov: Sir Anthony Hopkins "never had any idea" that he was an alcoholic
     13 Nov: Raven-Symoné tries to separate Bill Cosby's TV legacy from his "horrific" sexual assault allegation
     13 Nov: Sir Paul McCartney has urged COP30 organisers not to serve meat at the climate change conference
     13 Nov: Kim Kardashian has claimed someone in prison "put out a hit" on her life
     Top Stories

    RUGBY RUGBY
    International hockey is inbound for Dunedin this summer More...


    BUSINESS BUSINESS
    The Reserve Bank's welcoming changes to improve competition More...



     Today's News

    Entertainment:
    Michelle Obama avoided talking about fashion during her time in the White House 15:42

    Politics:
    US House votes to reopen federal government after longest shutdown in history 15:27

    Motoring:
    The record seven-time Supercars champion Jamie Whincup won't return to the Supercars grid in 2026...with the Triple Eight managing director replacing himself as a team co-driver 15:27

    Entertainment:
    Jason Kelce has launched the barbecue-inspired fragrance Slow Burn 15:12

    Cricket:
    The Black Caps will be chasing just 141 to beat the West Indies in the 5th T20 in Dunedin 15:07

    Business:
    The Reserve Bank's welcoming changes to improve competition 14:57

    Entertainment:
    Dame Judi Dench's eyesight is so bad that she can't watch TV or stage shows 14:42

    Entertainment:
    Sir Anthony Hopkins "never had any idea" that he was an alcoholic 14:12

    Technology:
    Emails reveal former prince Andrew talked to Jeffrey Epstein long after claiming he cut contact 14:07

    Soccer:
    Christchurch United have appointed Albert Riera as their new Head Coach for the 2026 Southern League and National League campaigns 14:07


     News Search






    Power Search


    © 2025 New Zealand City Ltd